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Professional & Lifestyle Dom / Master

Master Strokes is a professional and lifestyle BDSM Dom with over 20 years experience

London, Berkshire and the Western Home Counties.

Master Strokes

WHY ARE YOU HERE?

AN INTRODUCTION TO YOUR POTENTIAL MASTER

Let's start with my title.

There are a number who give themselves the most fanciful of names that frankly, often, leave them hoisted by their own petard.

I am a most grounded and level-headed man. Most Doms/Masters or professional dominants, choose a name that embodies them. How did I select mine? There is double-entendre behind 'Strokes' - it may mean with a whip - it may be with the gentleness of my hand's caress. I am far more interested in your psychology and what makes you tick than I am in satisfying my own ego.

The answer is twofold. Firstly, the command and control: from captaining the Rugby Team as a youngster through a public school education to joining the British Army as an Officer and more recently, in civilian life, as a Site Manager building up to 300 homes with 120+ overgrown Neanderthals in hard hats and steel toe boots working under me. All of this being the absolute clichéd Testosterone Club - I have always been the Alpha Male - I instinctively have lead and taken control ... I am a proud Scotsman - an educated barbarian. Rule 1 in my book is that one can never treat all the same way; everyone is individual and unique and as such needs to have the way in which they are treated tailored to their own motivational influences - some are core to the individual whilst others are circumstantial to that moment in time. Stick does most certainly have its place but care no less so!

Secondly, my regard for women: Perhaps, as a direct result of my working life, I have an enormous appreciation of women and anything that I regard as epitomising femininity - from long hair to nails, make-up to stilettos ... and that's just on a physical level. I will also ALWAYS find a way in to your soul. Women are generally far more sensual than men - your emotions run deeper - oft' with skills highly attuned to disguising them as a defence mechanism - one of my main proven skills/curses through the years has been to see through them. Female diplomacy is invariably superior to that of most men, self included, yet my directness usually has shock value. I see women as anything but inferior ... Simply the yin to my yang. Ultimately - they have been my greatest fascination - the general difference in their behaviour from that of the male psyche being far more appealing. No less of a curiosity has been watching the struggle that they have contended with over the years. This is one of the main reasons that I believe BDSM has remained a taboo.

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MASTER'S LOCATION

Geographically I cover: London and Western Home Counties (Berkshire, Hampshire, Buckinghamshire, Middlesex and Surrey).

I work from BDSM play-spaces and known, reliable and safe BDSM dungeons.

I also visit BDSM submissives and slaves.

CONTACT MASTER STROKES

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BDSM SESSIONS

ALTERNATIVE FUNDING OF BDSM SESSIONS

OUR FIRST MEETING.

Any and All BDSM sessions.

The cost of play spaces / dungeons / hotel room / cottage rental will NOT be included.

£80-100

£50

£POA

Our first meeting will be in a public place.

A chance to become aquainted, discuss limits, likes and dislikes.

If unable to afford sessions with Me; I may consider partial financial tribute combined with photographic modelling for / with Me.

The cost of play spaces / dungeons / hotel room / cottage rental will NOT be included.

What makes me the Master that I am?

For the last 100 years Society has been telling women that they need to stand tall as equals: beginning with the likes of Emmeline Pankhurst and the Suffragettes through to taking-on what was formerly viewed as men's roles through the 'Great Wars', only to have them removed when the men returned home, to having role-models ranging from Mother Theresa to Madonna, Margaret Thatcher to the English Monarch. Yet how many have complained that they have a partner who does not 'behave like a man' or that they have not felt 'protected and /or cared for'!? There is as much a power struggle WITHIN for many women as there is an open struggle for equality. For as long as you have been able to remember Society has dictated that you need to continue that battle. Is it not indeed the stronger women that can face the world and say, "This is not necessarily my need or at least not in all regards!"?

Indeed most of the women that I have dominated and whom have become my BDSM submissive / slave over the years have been bright, articulate, well educated and, in many cases highly successful in their careers; ranging from legal professionals to high-powered business women to one of my most recent, I have named her 'rouge', who heads-up one of the UK's most prestigious schools of medical learning.

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I come from a world of regimentation, hard and fast rules of order, structure and discipline. Can you imagine a platoon of soldiers in battle deciding that they would all 'do their own thing'? I have not only 'served' my nation but also a Mistress to learn a number of protocols within the Scene many years ago. I am a great believer in the ancient Chinese proverb, "I hear - I forget; I see - I remember; I do - I understand". Order, reverence, humility and etiquette - all are immensely valued by Me - all will be practiced by you!

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BDSM ARTICLES

WRITTEN ASSESSMENTS

If you have any questions, would like to know more and discuss options or if you are ready to take the next step and feel ready to schedule a meet, then contact Me:

Is it that you have read 'Fifty Shades Of Grey' and want to know a taste of the same?

If so - although I can probably re-enact some of that for you - the reality of BDSM and being a BDSM submissive is far removed from the imagination of E.L.James. As much as most of us within The Scene will have grated our teeth to read it, if we indeed managed the entirety of it before resigning it to the bin, the one redeeming feature that I will acknowledge is the fact that it's allowed many to openly face what you've known in yourself for years - a desire, perhaps a need, to serve, submit and possibly become a slave.

Food for thought: you may enter the likes of Ann Summers from one week to the next and the shop window-display will be changed each time. There is however one constant; week in - week out, month in - month out, there is always a range of leather, latex, whips and restraints. Why? The answer is simple: they reckon that approximately 90% of the UK population has 'dabbled' in BDSM to one degree or another. Have you never had your hands tied with a scarf or had one used to blindfold you? If so - you too have indeed already dipped your toe in the water.

Alternatively, it may be that you are an experienced bdsm submissive or slave, having served a Master in the past and for whatever reason he has let you go and you are looking for another to serve. Be aware: We are not all alike and although there are usually some commonalties between us, we do hold highly differing values and expectations, you will not be able to assume that you pick-up where you left-off.

On that note: my differentiation between a submissive and a slave. As my sub you will be invited to agree parameters and I will be your Master for no more than the duration of our Scene. As my slave - far greater a commitment for us both - far more lengthy discussions will need to be had as my investment in you will be that much more intense as yours will be. Either way, if you are to approach me, you will need to have self-worth and self-value. There are many who would call themselves Dom/Master or a dominant who I would simply refer to as BULLY! Be careful - one who sees no value in herself is invariably likely to be damaged, enormously, by such interaction. If you do not see value in yourself - why should I value you either? If you are to serve me, whether that be for a moment in time or a lifetime, you will be mine. As my property I will value and protect you; serve me well and you will be rewarded; serve me badly and you WILL be punished!